Just Like Old Times

The greatest friendships always survive time and distance. You know that when you come together, sometimes after 25 years, and feel like you've never been apart. I'm blessed to have many of these kinds of friends.

When Gordon, Margo and I came together in Wichita to celebrate the life of Gordon's mother, we all felt the years slip away. We were immediately younger in spirit, as we remembered the wonderful times we shared in college.

Tequila shots and fajitas help blur the passage of time, and our wait person, Adam, had fun taking our picture.

And just to reassure friends and family that tequila isn't always necessary for good times with old friends, here we are at lunch the next day. I love you, Gordon and Margo, and I miss spending time with you!

Friends and Family

When I lived in Wichita, Kansas (1977-1982), I met one of my dearest friends Gordon - the tallest on the right. His family was like my family and Gordon and became as close as brother and sister. 30+ years later the bond is stronger than ever. But it was with sadness that we all came together this week to celebrate the life of Gordon's mother, Darnell, who passed away on Palm Sunday. Gordon's sister Debbie - next to him - wrote a beautiful tribute to their mother and shared it with us at the service. The rest of the siblings in the picture are, to the left of Debbie, Melinda, Tony and Michael.

Another college friend, Margo, drove down from Omaha this morning for the service. We'll get together this evening to reminisce and share a bottle of wine.

Revisiting the Old Stomping Grounds

Today (and for the next few days), I'm in Wichita, Kansas, where I spent five years in the late 70s and early 80s. I got my Master of Music Degree at Wichita State University in 1979; after that I taught Junior High Band, played with the Wichita Symphony and worked as a freelance musician and part time classical music announcer. And of course, my friends and I spent a lot of time at Connie's Mexico Cafe.
25 years later, this little hole-in-the-wall, mom-and-pop restaurant is still a MUST if you're anywhere near Wichita. You'll find it on the corner of 21st and Broadway, with parking on the north side of the building. The platters are gi-normous (as the picture of the carne burrito shows), and the chips and salsa are made right in the kitchen.
I was a little surprised at how rundown my old neighborhood has become, but I also wonder if it was just as rundown 25 years ago and I just don't remember. The city itself has really expanded, or possibly sprawled. It will be interesting to explore some more tomorrow.

Happy Easter

Christus resurrexit!
Christus is opgestaan!
Cristo ha resucitado!
Tá Críost éirithe!
Khristos voskres!
Christus ist auferstanden!
Le Christ est ressuscité!
Kristus het opgestaan!
Cristo è risorto!
Le Christ est ressuscité!
Χριστός Ανέστη! (Christos Anesti!)
Christ is Risen! Alleluia!